Write three lists to guide your style choices. They’ll help you figure out what you need in your life right now, rather than getting stuck in ideas of a dream life or an old life. Once you’ve got your lists, you can get creative. I step through an example of how someone might use their three lists to narrow down their choices.

Are you a words person? If mood boards and images leave you feeling confused, creating three style words might simplify your style decisions. Choose three adjectives that reflect how you want to feel, or how you want to be seen. What’s the vibe or quality you want people to get when they see you? What are your three words?

Look forward, rather than back, to find stylish older role models.
Rather than looking back and trying to appear younger, I’m sharing why I’m looking ahead to the kind of older person I want to be and how I want to show up. I’ve even made you a Pinterest board for inspiration.

Stop looking at aliens (fashion illustrations and other non-real images) and learn to see and dress your own body.